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Sunday, October 7, 2012

We Thank Thee O God For a Prophet

We have thrilled as a family to watch this weekend's General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  I felt as if I was watching history in the making when President Monson announced the policy changes regarding missionary service.  Young men may embark on missionary service at the age of 18 after finishing high school.  This is in contrast to the previously expected age of 19.  Young women may now serve a mission at the age of 19 as opposed to the earlier age of 21.  This is a monumental change.  We sat stunned at the announcement with all our children, and I was moved to tears, understanding that all my children would be affected by the proclamation.

Nathan and I both had wonderful experiences serving missions, and I personally feel that it transformed my life and family.  I am a better mother, leader, student, friend, and disciple of Christ as a result of my service.  I am grateful that more will have the opportunity to serve missions.  I am grateful that my daughters won't be as torn in their lives as I was about service.  Less young women will need to choose between marriage and a mission.  Knowing that my boys will leave me a year earlier is a bittersweet experience.  They will grow and be blessed in so many ways as they strive to bless the lives of others, but of course it will be hard to let them leave the nest that much earlier.

They all were excited though, and they feel the excitement in the hastening of the work.  I feel a responsibility to prepare them that much sooner.  Tomorrow night we will have our lesson out of the Preach My Gospel Manuel, and we will approach it with new vigor.  I feel blessed to live in this days.

Sunday, September 16, 2012

It's Great to Be Eight!


How has my little girl grown up so quickly?  She is getting so old, and unlike my boys she understands me!  She is such a beautiful girl both inside and out.


She is also pretty spunky!  You have to be with three older brothers who have very little tolerance.  She is incredibly social and can't live without her social life.  Tonight she managed to singlehandedly get company over to make s'mores with us.


She is also tender.  She feels the pain of others and is sensitive to what they are feeling beyond her years.  She has started to be quite a reader and always wants to read books about slavery.  It is beyond her sense of justice to understand how certain things were once accepted.


Just the other day she was little, and we moved to Alamosa right before her second birthday.  Now here she is a big girl!


They have all grown up over the past six years.


I love my daughter and am so grateful to have her in our family!


Sunday, September 2, 2012

Family Reunion


We had a wonderful time reacquainting with all our Cherpeski family this summer, and I was really grateful that they had the sense to schedule a photo shoot with all our family.  What an amazing crew we have!  All because two people fell in love:


I love seeing Susan and Tyler as parents.  It has brought out a tender side of them that I enjoy witnessing, and it also brings back all the memories of when Nathan and I started our family.  They do it with a lot more style than we ever did!


Jeremy and Sarah are such great parents, and I am happy they are so happy together.  I saw a new side of Sarah after a long and grueling game of UNO.  She has quite the sense of humor, and I look forward to playing a lot more games in the future and laughing a lot!


I was happy that our kids all looked in the general direction of the camera.  We have a better photo that I am planning on using on my blog heading and Christmas cards in the future.


I love this picture of Jen and Jeff's family.  I was jealous that we didn't think of it, and I am already planning next year's photo shoot.  As usual it was fun to visit and watch their children who are growing up so quickly and are such great children.


I was anxious to meet our newest family members, Manda and Aunika, and I am happy to say that they will make an outstanding new addition to the family.  Manda is so kind-hearted and fun.  She reminds me a lot of one of my best friends, and I look forward to getting to know her better.  Nicole can't wait to play with Aunika again.  I also liked talking to Brittany and Kyle.  They are growing up way to quick, and they are turning into mature and smart young adults.



OVERALL WE HAVE A GREAT FAMILY!





Thursday, August 2, 2012

Trek


How do I sum up an experience that defies description?  How do I define an event that has consumed my life for years?  All I can do is tell their story and my story. 

In 1856, a new project was started.  It enabled the poorer members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to come to Utah.  A perpetual emigration fund was set up where money was donated by wealthier members of the church and then was loaned out to help finance a handcart with the supplies needed to walk to Zion.


This plan was hugely successful and the Saints arrived in Salt Lake City healthy and vigorous from the experience.  Near the end of the season, two companies got a late start due to miscommunication.  They were the Willie and Martin Handcart Companies.  They traveled from Europe on the ships, "Horizon" and "Thornton."  They then continued on to Iowa City where they prepared for the overland journey.  They had only green wood available to build their carts.


Things became even more difficult after the trip began when their cattle were stampeded.  They were planning on using them for milk and meat and to pull the supply wagons.  They searched for several days but only found a handful of them.  Nonetheless they continued on.


Their troubles continued when they reached a station where they anticipated restocking their food supplies.  There was no food to be found, but they still voted to continue on.  Winter came early.  Snow arrived in early October.  When they reached Wyoming their food had run out, and they were facing freezing temperatures.


Around this time the Prophet Brigham Young learned of the handcart companies that were heading to Utah, and he cancelled a scheduled conference with the Saints in Salt Lake, to use the time in calling out for a rescue.  This would be no ordinary rescue.  It would require the sacrifice of families who had suffered successive crop failures.  They gathered all the necessary food, clothing and supplies needed and went into the winter storms in a matter of days.  It would be months before they would return.


They Willie Handcart Company was two weeks ahead, and they ran out of food just as they miraculously stumbled upon the rescuers.  They had to hike the notorious Rocky Ridge to get to where help was available.  They went on a 27 hour forced march that took all of October 25th and part of the 26th.  At their destination, Rock Creek Hollow, 13 perished in exhaustion, and the two who dug their grave died the next day.


The rescuers brought them food, warm clothes and hope.  They gave help to them as the pulled the remaining miles into Utah, and carried those who had no strength left.  They also continued on, looking for the Martin Handcart Company who was much worse off.


After the final crossing of the Platte River, Martin's Company suffered many deaths.  They staggered their way past Independence Rock and Devil's Gate  and finally stopped at a sheltered Cove.  They were done traveling.  They food was gone, and they would either perish or be rescued.  Many were close to giving up, but aid finally came.  They were given food, clothing and waited as enough wagons arrived to carry them through the final journey.  They had enough to eat, but still suffered from the cold the rest of the trip.


Between the two companies of 980 people, over 213 people perished.  Miraculously the remaining number survived.


The following year, five more handcart companies traveled using handcarts, with few losses.  The final company had no deaths. 


We trekked with the Alamosa Stake Youth and Leaders in remembrance of all those among the Willie and Martin Handcart companies as well as the Rescuers.


It was a privilege and a humbling experience.  There was a Spirit we felt in Rock Creek Hollow that approached that of the Temple.  It was wonderful to be there with our older boys.  Nathan and I were a Ma and Pa, and we had our boys in our family group.  We also had several other "children" who were a pleasure to trek, work, camp and eat with.


We had our own trek miracles.  On the 11 hour drive to Wyoming one of the three buses had the air conditioner go out.  They dropped us off at the Rocky Ridge trail and that night Ramblin sent a new bus up.  The next day, on the way to Martin's Cove, the third bus hit a huge rock on the dirt road that tore open the oil pan.  They would have been delayed by at least 6-7 hours and entirely missed the experience, but the bus without an air conditioner was still close by, and they were only 2 hours behind us as a result. 


We were all able to go to Martin's Cove together.  It was a blessing to see the Lord's hand in our experience.


We had music all along the trail that added a richness to the experience.  I was able to play my flute with a Young Woman as everyone went on a silent walk through Martin's Cove.  The music echoed off the rock walls and had an almost haunting beauty.  The veil was very thin.


We were able to hear the story of the rescuers who carried the company across the Sweetwater River.  Four young men crossed the icy river 75 times to help the group on their final river crossing.


Then we had our own silent river crossing as a Young Women played a beautiful hymn on the violin.


It was very powerful.


For me, the most personally touching moment was during the women's pull, to memorialize all the women who pulled on their own.  I had flash through my mind the stories of the widows, orphans, and single women who pulled their handcarts for the entire journey.


Trek was a triumph.  I don't know how it could have gone better, and it was a life-changing experience for all of us who participated.  We could feel the spirits of those who made this journey and will forever learn from their sacrifice and example.


I feel gratitude and reverence for the experience.


I'm glad I could share it with my close friends and loved ones.


We all have our own personal treks, and burdens to carry.  It's up to us to choose what our story will be.


This picture was taken the last night in Wyoming by a friend of mine of a friend of mine.  It takes us back in time, and we see that we really are the same.  We have the same desire of eternal families, prophets, and most importantly guidance from God.


I hope that I will never forget this lesson.


Sunday, July 29, 2012

Eagle Project


Brandon did his eagle project in June.  He built a trail in the Blanca Vista Park right along the pond.  I didn't go out there until the day we met the trucks that were dumping the rock for the trail.  It is really a beautiful spot, and it will make such a nice place for people to walk.
He raised $850 to pay for the rock, but when he met with Rocky from Southway Construction, he found out that they wanted to donate all the materials.  It was incredible!  So.....he is using the money to put benches along the trail instead.
 

Brandon was so good about organizing the day.  He worked really hard to get things ready.  He looks good out there and is a natural leader.


The city crews were kind enough to use their equipment to dump rock along the trail, so they didn't have to move it all in wheelbarrows.  That helped a lot to speed up the day.


The scouts still had plenty of work moving, raking and finishing the trail. 


We ended up having some extra rock.  They used that to put in the picnic/barbeque areas.  It made the two picnic spots look much better.  There were people waiting to use it as soon as we were finished.


The boys all worked so hard, and we made sure they were well-fed with pizza, and rootbeer.


There are lots of nice trees along the trail.  It is a pretty spot.  We also had perfect weather that day.  It wasn't too hot, and there was a nice breeze.



Now more people in the community can enjoy the gorgeous view of the pond and Mt. Blanca.  I am proud of my Brandon boy!  He is growing up so fast into an amazing  young man!  Today he finished typing up the application to become an eagle scout.  Job well done!